Episode notes
What this conversation opens up.
What if the key to personal growth, better relationships, and stronger leadership isn’t doing more—but understanding what you feel?
In **Moonshots Podcast Episode 283**, Mike and Mark explore *Atlas of the Heart* by **Brené Brown**, a groundbreaking framework for building emotional intelligence through language, courage, and clarity. Brené challenges us to notice the emotional patterns we repeat—and asks whether avoiding certain feelings is quietly limiting our growth.
This episode begins with a powerful intervention: if we want different results in life, we must be willing to feel what we’ve been unwilling to feel before. Drawing on psychology, neuroscience, and lived experience, Brené explains why **“naming is taming”**—how accurately labelling emotions reduces emotional reactivity and restores choice.
Mike and Mark unpack key emotional states such as envy, comparison, and *schadenfreude*, reframing them through a team mindset inspired by Abby Wambach. Instead of seeing others’ success as a threat, we learn how emotional awareness helps us move from scarcity to connection.
The episode closes with a practical exploration of **emotional regulation vs. emotional suppression**, showing how emotions can become reliable data—guiding us toward values-based decisions, intentional living, and healthier relationships.
